Not being so active

Hey guys, the reason why I haven’t been so active on my blog for a while is because I lost the internet for some weird reason but now iam back – even with doubleside pneumonia. Thank you everyone for sticking around and continue to visit my blog.

The only thing that’s bothering me right now, is the design. It’s so boring and I wish I could change it and make it more personal. Anyone know how? Please let me know.

Kisses! and thank you!

Is it time for a new location?

Every girl dreams of meeting the right guy. But we also dream of what to become when we grow up. Some girls dreams of becoming a nurse, lawyer, singer, popstar etc. When I was growing up, I dreamt to become an actress. But when I grew older, I discovered that acting wasn’t really what I wanted to do. I found my passion for photography. But what if someone don’t find their passion? What if a girl never figure out what she wanna become when she grows up? Every little girl in this world, wearing cute dresses and Barbie dolls dream of one thing, every girl dreams of it – to have a family. Maybe not in young age as five but we all have seen Disneys movies with the princesses such as Cinderella, Sleeping beauty, snow white and all the others. We all have dreamt of the Prince Charming, riding on a white great horse.

In the town where I live, people are so judgemental. Being a big girl with extra kilo on their body is hard. Not only to find the perfect dress but to find someone who would love you. In my town, there is two types of men – a man who is laughing straight to your face and a man who is eyeing you up and down while saying crap to their friends and the whole group starts to laugh at you. While watching the whole DVD collection of Sex and the City, I realised, its not the big girls who has the problems but the guys. But I know, out there is a man or a woman for everyone. But why are the men who likes a little bit bigger girls so rare to find? Is it time for a change? To meet new people, open up to find the true love that might exist. Who knows.

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Why is the girls with extra weight on there body getting criticized for how God created there body? All over the net, you see so much hate and rarely love. I was on Facebook just a few moments ago and saw a guy shared a videoclip of a girl and a guy having fun on the playground. Sure this lady was a bit bigger than the guy. And they had so much fun playing on a thing that I don’t know the name of on english nor Swedish. And it turned around and the bigger girl fell onto the ground and bam! The guy flew off of it. And the tackiest part is, that someone has edited it so the guy flew out to the outer space and when I checked the comments, they all laugh and thought it was funny.. I asked myself, why is the guys laughing to the girl who fell off? So I asked the guy who had share it. No response. But an other guy INSTANTLY started to critize me for my question. I mean, aren’t we allowed to ask questions when we wanna know the answer?

Why is this world so black and white? Why is the fact that if you have extra weight on your body, you get judged and critized? Why can’t people just accept the fact that there is two types of people in this world? One type who has no extra weight and the other type who has some extra on their body?

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I know that I have written a post about weight and acceptance of bigger men and girls. But this is who iam. I have an opinion and I wanna share. I also wanna hear your opinions so please, ignore the fact of the misspellings and wrong grammar and join me for an discussion.. Is this really ok?

-// Emma • posted via mobile • WordPress App ❤

Are we gonna accept this?

Every minute, every hour, everyday, people are criticising how people look. The reason why I’m writing this, with bad grammar and spelling I know, is the fact that I’m tired of reading shamings on the internet. EVERYDAY I see and hear people being rude and mean to someone with extra fluff on their body. Everyday, I see how much H&M and other fashion stores get shit for having plus sized women and men on their campaigns and advertisement. Come on people, its 2015 for god sakes. Embrace the full figured ladies and men. Embrace their confidence to stand in front of the camera. Embrace them for being themselves. Why is people so obsessed with being skinny? Why can’t people just stop with their negativity and embrace the people instead?

For 20+ years, I have heard EVERYTHING there is to say about fat and big people. And still people continue to use the word fat, ugly etc. And people thinks that being fat is the persons fault. No sweetie, being “Fat” can be on so many reasons. You don’t have to eat to get fat. You don’t have to just sit on your booty to be fat. The people today just think that people with extra fat on their bodies, eats only junkfood and being lazy. Well, I’m fat and I don’t eat junk food and I’m not being lazy. Because you know what, you can get fat from medicines, hormones, genetics and so much more.

Just because some people have some extra meat on their bodies doesn’t mean that they can’t be healthy. Yes they are. Some peoples test results are much better than a people with low weight.

Being fat is hard. You get to be called one word after an other. You have hard time finding clothes in store. You always look around to see if people are looking, laughing and pointing at you. Why can’t people just accept the way God created humans? Why can’t people accept that there is full figured ladies and men? Why do people feel the need to comment and say hurtful stuff about other people’s looks, body etc?

People with low weight thinks that writing mean and rude comments or say them to people with extra weight’s face will help them motivate to loose their weight. No honey, you only hurt their feelings, and you might make people depressed. I know some people with extra meat (wow that’s so many times I’ve written that so I’m gonna call them “Fluffs” – much cutier), including myself, gets called fat, porky, mountain etc everyday. Some people can shake it off but some people can’t. Before I learned how to make the words go thru my ears and shaking them off, I was so depressed. To have to hear the words over and over again, can really tare the confidence to the ground. To the middle of the earth. I got so depressed that I wanted to end my life. But I got help with my depression and I’m forever thankful for that. Because today I’m an aunt for some amazing and wonderful kids.

I know this post might sound so weird. Sound so strange and you might have seen misspellings and bad grammar. But I really hope that you guys understand this post and maybe share it with your friends and family. Because from today, we big people is taking back the word “FAT”. From today it won’t be a negative word. From today the word FAT will be a word that we will smile to and it will raise our confidence. Because the word FAT will from now on mean • Fabulous And Tasty •

-// Emma • posted via mobile • WordPress App ❤

I’m so happy!

Hey guys! The reason why I haven’t been posting lately is because .. OH IM SO HAPPY I BARELY CANT KEEP IT AS A SECRET ANYMORE! I got a new job! Yes! I got a job at a senior center I think it calls and I help the elderly people who needs help. I enjoy my work really much. The ladies and the men are so sweet and they boost my confidence with compliments. I like the job I have now. I didn’t wanna say anything because I wanted to sign the papers first but I can’t keep it as a secret anymore!

Also what I have done lately is that I have been on one of Sweden’s biggest markets, guys.. You have no idea how big it is. And I bought some cute stuff that I will show you guys later. What have you guys been doing lately?

-// Emma • posted via mobile • WordPress App ❤

Lately, I’ve been thinking…

… Off what type of person iam. I know iam a fun, loving, happy girl with creative sides. But I’ve been thinking lately about me and my style. I love the 50’s but also dark – kinda gothic and pretty. I’ve been looking on the internet to find a similiar style to me. But really, all I see is great styles and unique styles but it’s not really me. Do you sometimes have this problem? What to wear, how to have your makeup etc. I’ve it daily. My wardrobe is all black, my makeup is kinda brown / goldish and black. I never wear colors. Only with details. BUT how can i do a combination of gothic/50’s/Pretty/High Fashion? Well, dark clothes (gothic), Brown/black makeup (Pretty), 50’s (accessories) and nails/hair style/colors (H F) But really, that would look weird, so now I need your opinion. Can you help me?

My official Facebook page

I’ve created a page where I can chat with all of you, people who wanna chat with me etc. Apparently iam a member of many pages, pages I’ve never heard off (people fake being me) so I decided to create a official page for Emma Eriica J. And I will be updating it often and more than my personal page :) Please Like my page, would mean so much to me <3

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